Sunday, December 11, 2016

Gaslighting

This happened to me this year!  I didn't know that there was a name for this.  I had to take immediate action and cut a person out of my life.

"Gaslighting can happen on both macro and micro levels and takes many forms. But its message usually boils down to this: “If you have a problem with something I’ve done, the problem is actually with you.”
http://everydayfeminism.com/2016/11/gaslighting-trump-abusive-ex/?utm_source=FB&utm_medium=kw&utm_campaign=Keywee_FB_Ad_Aug_202016&kwp_0=276113

Wednesday, December 7, 2016

Get Over It - NOW!

"I can't believe this!"
"Unbelievable!"
"I just can't believe that..."

Right now, I am going to stop using these phrases.  We need to move beyond the marveling stage - QUICKLY.  The sooner we come to terms with what is happening, the faster we can start working on solutions.